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U.S. soldier returns home to find out he left something behind in Iraq
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A few months ago, I found a Web site loaded with pictures
and videos from Iraq, the sort that usually aren't seen on the news. I
watched insurgent snipers shoot American soldiers and car bombs
disintegrate markets, accompanied by tinny music and loud, rhythmic
chanting, the soundtrack of the propaganda campaigns. Video cameras
focused on empty stretches of road, building anticipation. Humvees
rolled into view and the explosions brought mushroom clouds of dirt and
smoke and chunks of metal spinning through the air. Other videos and
pictures showed insurgents shot dead while planting roadside bombs or
killed in firefights and the remains of suicide bombers, people how
they're not meant to be seen, no longer whole. The images sickened me,
but their familiarity pulled me in, giving comfort, and I couldn't stop.
I clicked through more frames, hungry for it. This must be what a shot
of dope feels like after a long stretch of sobriety. Soothing and
nauseating and colored by everything that has come before. My body
tingled and my stomach ached, hollow. I stood on weak legs and walked
into the kitchen to make dinner. I sliced half an
onion before putting the knife down and watching slight tremors run
through my hand. The shakiness lingered. I drank a
beer. And as I leaned against this kitchen counter, in this house, in
America, my life felt very foreign.

I've been home from Iraq for more than a year, long enough for my time
there to become a memory best forgotten for those
who worried every day that I was gone. I could see their relief when I
returned. Life could continue, with futures not so uncertain. But in
quiet moments, their relief brought me guilt. Maybe they assume I was as
overjoyed to be home as they were to have me home. Maybe they assume if
I could do it over, I never would have gone. And maybe I wouldn't have.
But I miss Iraq. I miss the war. I miss war. And I have a very hard time
understanding why.

I'm glad to be home, to have put away my uniforms, to wake up next to my
wife each morning. I worry about my friends who
are in Iraq now, and I wish they weren't. Often I hated being there,
when the frustrations and lack of control over my life were complete and
mind-bending. I questioned my role in the occupation and whether good
could come of it. I wondered if it was worth dying or killing for. The
suffering and ugliness I saw disgusted me. But war twists and shifts the
landmarks by which we navigate our lives, casting light on darkened
areas that for many people remain forever unexplored. And once those
darkened spaces are lit, they become part of us. At a party several
years ago, long before the Army, I listened to a friend who had served
several years in the Marines tell a woman that if she carried a pistol
for a day, just tucked in her waistband and out of sight, she would feel
different. She would see the
world differently, for better or worse. Guns empower. She disagreed and
he shrugged. No use arguing the point; he was just offering a little
piece of truth. He was right, of course. And that's just the beginning.

I've spent hours taking in the world through a rifle scope, watching
life unfold. Women hanging laundry on a rooftop. Men haggling over a
hindquarter of lamb in the market. Children walking to school. I've
watched this and hoped that someday
I would see that my presence had made their lives better, a redemption
of sorts. But I also peered through the scope waiting for someone to do
something wrong, so I could shoot him. When you pick up a weapon with
the intent of killing, you
step onto a very strange and serious playing field. Every morning
someone wakes wanting to kill you. When you walk down the street, they
are waiting, and you want to kill them, too. That's not bloodthirsty;
that's just the trade you've learned. And as an American soldier, you
have a very impressive toolbox. You can fire your rifle or lob a
grenade, and if that's not enough, call in the tanks, or helicopters, or
jets. The insurgents have their skill sets, too, turning mornings at
the market into chaos, crowds into scattered flesh, Humvees into charred
scrap. You're all part of the terrible magic show, both powerful and
helpless.

That men are drawn to war is no surprise. How old are boys before they
turn a finger and thumb into a pistol? Long before they love girls, they
love war, at least everything they imagine war to be: guns and
explosions and manliness and courage. When my neighbors and I played war
as kids, there was no fear or sorrow or cowardice. Death was temporary,
usually as fast as you could count to sixty and jump back into the
game. We didn't know yet about the darkness. And young men are just
slightly older versions of those boys, still loving the unknown, perhaps
pumped up on dreams of duty and heroism and the
intoxicating power of weapons. In time, war dispels many such notions,
and more than a few men find that being freed from
society's professed revulsion to killing is really no freedom at all,
but a lonely burden. Yet even at its lowest points, war is
like nothing else. Our culture craves experience, and that is war's
strong suit. War peels back the skin, and you live with a layer of
nerves exposed, overdosing on your surroundings, when everything seems
all wrong and just right, in a way that makes perfect sense. And then
you almost die but don't, and are born again, stoned on life and mocking
death. The explosions and gunfire fry your nerves, but you want to hear
them all the same. Something's going down.

For those who know, this is the open secret: War is exciting. Sometimes I
was in awe of this, and sometimes I felt low and mean for loving it,
but I loved it still. Even in its quiet moments, war is brighter,
louder, brasher, more fun, more tragic, more wasteful. More. More of
everything. And even then I knew I would someday miss it, this life so
strange. Today the war
has distilled to moments and feelings, and somewhere in these memories
is the reason for the wistfulness.

On one mission we slip away from our trucks and into the night. I lead
the patrol through the darkness, along canals and fields and into the
town, down narrow, hard-packed dirt streets. Everyone has gone to bed,
or is at least inside. We peer through gates and over walls into
courtyards and into homes. In a few rooms TVs flicker. A woman washes
dishes in a tub.
Dogs bark several streets away. No one knows we are in the street,
creeping. We stop at intersections, peek around corners, training guns
on parked cars, balconies, and storefronts. All empty. We move on. From a
small shop up ahead, we hear men's voices and laughter. Maybe they used
to sit outside at night, but now they are indoors, where it's safe.
Safer. The sheet-metal door opens and a man steps out, cigarette and
lighter in hand. He still wears a smile, takes in the
cool night air, and then nearly falls backward through the doorway in a
panic. I'm a few feet from him now and his eyes are wide. I mutter a
greeting and we walk on, back into the darkness.


Added: Feb-2-2012 Occurred On: Feb-2-2012
By: SpreadForge
In:
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Tags: U.S. Army, Soldier, Iraq
Location: United States (load item map)
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  • what a beautiful and well written article! that has got my vote and the soldier will always have my respect!

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  • At the risk of being bashed into hell by fanboys, the article is not that well written, and is a one-sided point of view from someone who was brought up to be a soldier with no acknowledgement of it. For him, everyone is brought up that way, and that is normal. That's in fact not true; quite the opposite.

    "How old are boys before they turn a finger and thumb into a pistol?" - You were brought up that way by TV, parents, society. Here, we didn't have so much guns and robbers, more cons More..

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  • I thought this was mildly interesting till i read:
    "I questioned my role in the occupation "

    then i realized this was a story with an agenda.

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  • that was awesome... thanks for sharing...

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  • thank you for that.

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  • Who are all you people to judge this man?? Tell me the last major war you fought in! War changes you.. it makes you different, I know I was there from 2005 to 2006 doing convoy security and detainee ops in abu ghraib. As far as the insurgency goes I dont blame them at all for fighting us. If America was invaded and occupied by a foreign nation I would pick up a weapon and fight too. But that doesnt change that the fact that we are enemies and its kill or be killed.

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  • Very good piece.
    No politics, no bulllshit. Just a view into the mind of a soldier.
    Thank you for your service and welcome home.

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  • Thank you for posting this well written reminder to we civilians that those who serve in harms way for our freedom never come home the same as when they left. We owe them a huge debt and more importantly our support and assistance as they attempt to return to civilian life. All too often we never think of what our armed forces have seen and lived through in some of the worst areas of the world. Countries where they give no value to life, still deal in slave trade and wake up very morning pledgin More..

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  • God Bless our soilders!

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  • Your Soul may belongs to God but your memory belongs to War from here on out...

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  • I really liked this and hope others might see it. Write more.

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  • Interesting and revealing inside view.
    Beautifully written and presented.
    Surely for the most of us it is hard to understand the feelings of veteran
    soldiers,because we haven't been in the same situation, "war" or even military-service; but it is an interesting mind -view and -revelation.

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  • Be advised: This story was written after talking with army spc. a. brown after deployment to iraq, this story is not a fake but a true one, anyone who might doubt on it, feel free to let him know what you think about his time in iraq while serving this country and fighting for us all.
    whatever, this is easy to tell it's a fake but be fair, those men and women risk their life to serve for the U.S. so everyone doubt in it stand your man and let him know, otherwise take it fair and pay tribut they More..

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  • Well done. Awesome authentic read. Spoken from the heart. Congrats Spreadforge on a true story of life for an ex soldier.

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  • excellent read! voted. The ones that truely confront death are the ones that hunted for it. The sad thing is every one of us are capable of killing, and living for the fight. Death is a part of life, and if you feel in your heart that you are doing good by removing evil and tyranny from this planet, then you are. The reason I will always see insurgents as evil is because they are only killing and dying for themselves,for their own beliefs not for others.

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  • "Fear Addiction". We can speak about.
    But in the end it is destructive like other "heavy" drugs..

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  • Well written. How smooth.

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  • very well written

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  • Why s the poster deleting so many comments?

    I think the writer is practicing writing short stories

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  • Great read.

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  • I remember once in Kosovo, we were going through the outskirts of a small village to meet an informant. It was the middle of the night and all my unit was spread along a road boarding a couple of houses. One of the owners came out to grab a smoke, it was a very old woman, she looked right and saw me and a couple guys crouched by the wall, she took a look right and saw some of the patrol spreaded along the other wall: we were all heavy duty, black suits, black masks. We were frozen. She stared i More..

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  • I miss my war...

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  • Nice

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  • The freak doesn't realize he's made Rumsfeld and Bush proud of what they've done.

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